Exciting News! – August 2011 Update

I’m Engaged!!

I proposed to Cameron on August 10 and she said yes!  It was a day to remember.  For the full story, click here.

After the proposal

New Campus Assignment

I’m excited to announce that I will be on campus full-time at UC Davis starting in September.  Cameron is there, which is ideal since we’ll be married soon. 🙂  The movement is also in need of a male staff member who can raise up freshman guys and disciple students in the movement.  I just moved in to an extra room that belongs to a great family in Davis on August 1.  I’m currently getting settled, and since Davis is known as one of America’s best biking towns, am in the market for a bike!

To get an idea of what the Cru movement is like at Davis, vist the Davis Cru website.

The bike circle at UC Davis

Campus Crusade Name Change

After years of praying, Campus Crusade felt it was appropriate to start using a new name that would reduce one hindrance to the Gospel (the word “Crusade) and better represent the organization’s scope of ministry (not just our work on the “campus”).  The name chosen was “Cru”, a name that many of our ministries on campus have been going by for about a decade without the unneeded connotations that come with the old name.  We have a new name, but will continue with the same message that we have been proclaiming for 60 years.  I am behind this name change and feel that God will use it to help us proclaim Christ in even greater ways than before.  To read an article that I wrote called “Why the Name Change”, click here.

Our new logo

Prayer Requests

  • My new staff team and I start planning for the fall quarter on September 5.  Pray for good preparation for a busy quarter, that our team would bond well, and dependence on the Lord.
  • Before I can start working with the staff team on September 5, I need to work on expanding my team of financial ministry partners.  Pray that God would bless this time of fundraising.
  • Pray for Cameron and me in the midst of engagement.  Pray for good communication, that we would serve and love each other, and good preparation for our wedding and married life.

I'm Engaged!

After I proposed

As of Wednesday August 10, I’m engaged to a beautiful woman named Cameron Croasdale!  I’m so excited to marry this girl!  We’ve been dating for nearly a year.  I introduced her to you in a previous update,  but here’s the story of how I proposed:

A few months ago, I started plotting how I could make a proposal special to Cameron.  There are many things that she loves.  Just a few of them are words of affirmation, flowers, and gardens.  Way back when Cameron and I were in South Africa together, I began journaling about her.  This has continued all the way until now.  I jotted down things that I noticed about her, such as her beauty, sweetness, love for the Lord, love for others, and love for kids, among other things.  The journal entries kept occurring as we spent time together.  I journaled about asking her out.  I journaled about spending time at Christmas with her family.  I journaled about our day at Disneyland together.  As I prayed about what to do for proposing, I realized that I should probably include some of these journal entries since Cameron is such a words of affirmation person.  A few weeks ago, I began to go through my journal and gather the relevant entries.  I also began to gather pictures from our times together.  Having never done a scrapbook before, I went to the local craft store and cluelessly wandered through the aisles.  I picked out a scrapbook album, colorful cardstock paper, scissors, and glue.  For the next week, I spent hours and hours carefully putting together a scrapbook mixed with journal entries and photos.

Where would I propose though?  Cameron literally stops to smell the roses all of the time.  As I prayed, I thought a garden would be perfect.  I googled “gardens”.  There was the Berkeley botanical garden, but it looked like it was just okay.  Not good enough for a proposal.  I began looking in Southern California, and on the suggestion of a few women, found the Huntington Library in San Marino.  It has 207 acres of beautiful gardens.  Perfect.

The day before I proposed, I told Cameron that we would be going somewhere as a surprise the next day.  The morning of, Cameron and I went to breakfast.  We then went to the Huntington Library, looked at an art exhibit, and then started exploring the gardens.  Cameron found a rose garden and spent a long time smelling the roses. 🙂  She was happy.  We then moved on, with me looking for the perfect place to propose the whole time, since I had never been there and only seen pictures online.  After walking around for about a half an hour, I found it.  It was a bench under a canopy of trees at the end of a gigantic lawn of picture perfect grass.  We sat down and talked for a little bit.

The view from the bench where I proposed

I then asked if I could show Cameron something.  I pulled out the scrapbook and started reading.  I read every word slowly and aloud to her.  She loved it.  It took about 20 minutes.  By the end, she was crying.  Afterward, I said a few things.  By the end of that, I was crying.  I pulled out the ring, got down on one knee, and said, “Will you marry me?”

She said, “Yes”, and kissed me.  I put the ring on her finger, and we were officially engaged.

Cameron and I are so excited to marry each other.  She is the woman of my dreams.  I can’t imagine marrying anyone else.  I’ve told God multiple times that she is such a gift from him, and that he knows what I want and need even more than I do.  My prayer is that she’ll always know that she is loved and cherished, through good times and hard times.

We’ve just begun the process of planning our wedding.  Please pray for us as we begin analyze how much money we have to work with, search out venues, and plan all of the details that we probably only know the half of.  It will be a long process, but I’m excited to plan together with her.  The thing I’m most excited about, however, is that I get to spend my life with this amazing woman.  I love the thought of living life with her.

Some Links

In addition to my thoughts in the previous post, I wanted to post some links to a few other blogs:

Is Campus Crusade Falling Away from Christ? – Examines this fear from a biblical perspective.

Everything You Need to Know About the Cru Name Change – Provides some perspective from a number of different sources, both inside and outside the organization.  A wealth of helpful links.

Why the Name Change?

Campus Crusade for Christ is changing its name to CruThis link is the perspective of the leaders who made the decision (with FAQs).  Below are some of my thoughts.

We are no longer just a campus ministry.  The last two words, “for Christ,” absolutely still apply, but the associations many people have with the term “Crusade” have changed since Campus Crusade was founded in 1951.

While I work on the college campus, Campus Crusade for Christ is much more than a campus ministry.  Many people I talk with, however, are completely unaware of this.  There are over 25 other ministries under the Campus Crusade umbrella, including Athletes in Action, Priority Associates, Here’s Life Inner City, Jesus Film, our music ministry called Keynote, and many others.  Our previous name didn’t do justice to these ministries and the impact they are having around the world beyond the campus.

According to Tom Gilson, “Crusade” was a religiously neutral term in the 1950s (when Campus Crusade started) and for several years following.  Awareness of Islam and its history, however, has risen steadily since then.  The Christian crusades cause a lot of baggage to be carried into evangelism today.  “There’s a lot of misinformation concerning the Crusades (see here on that), but still they are a stain on Christian history,” says Gilson.  It hinders our mission of seeing lost students come to Jesus when people associate our name with something so terrible.  Why put that stumbling block in their way?

Many of our local campus ministries have been calling their meetings “Cru” for more than ten years.  It’s what we call it at UC Irvine.

The leaders of our ministry brought in good outside help and did extensive research.  The researchers found that the name “Cru” seems to work well with other people we’re connected with such as volunteers, financial supporters, etc.

As for not having Christ in our name any longer, having the word “Christ” in the name of a mission mission agency isn’t a must, and, in fact, few missions organizations have “Jesus” or “Christ” in their name.  To quote Gilson again, “what matters is whether He is exalted in the leaders’ and members’ hearts and actions, their motivation, and their outreach.”  I think of many Christ-focused ministries that are making a huge impact in the world, such as Navigators, Wycliffe, and World Impact.  None of these ministries contain anything overtly Christian in their names, yet few can deny how Gospel-centered they are and that they are helping millions around the globe realize how great Christ is.  Conversely, the Church of Jesus Christ and Latter Day Saints contains the name of Christ, but I think most Christians would agree that his name is being misrepresented by their mission.

I am so impressed at the way our ministry’s leaders have rolled out this name change in our staff conference this week.  It has been constantly emphasized in every aspect of our time together that there is still only one Name that matters: Jesus Christ.  “Our mission is not changing,” says Gilson. “We are as focused as ever on glorifying Christ and helping to fulfill the Great Commission (Matthew 28:19-20).  Jesus Christ is no less at the core and the heart of our movement now than he ever was.”

As Campus Crusade for Christ or as Cru, our primary mission is to reach those who don’t know Jesus.  Research showed that 20% of people who were interested in having a conversation about Jesus were no longer interested in having that spiritual conversation after they heard the name Campus Crusade for Christ.  It makes sense, since these people don’t know who Jesus is and they a group with such an aggressive name as Campus Crusade.  In their eyes, it doesn’t seem like there is much room for discussion.  In my eyes, Jesus is Lord and Savior, but it might be a process that takes repeated discussion for them to realize this.  If I can help with a name change but still be true to the mission, why not change the name?

While doing evangelism, I have had many people refuse to even have a conversation with me because I’m a Christian.  I have been able to introduce Christ to people, however, that would have never talked to me, only because I was more gentle with them than some other methods that have been used in the past.  I am not ashamed of the Gospel or of Jesus’ name, as some people are claiming.  I am convinced, however, that Paul’s instructions to become all things to all people (1 Cor 9:19-23) at times includes not mentioning Christ immediately at the beginning of a conversation.  I till the hard soil, however, and pray for an open door to share Christ so each person can come into a relationship with the only one who is the Way, the Truth, and the Life.

Still, there was no explicit intention to take Christ out of the name.  According to Justin Stowell, who was involved in the naming process,

“Campus Crusade for Christ (Cru) is unswervingly committed to proclaiming the name of Jesus Christ.  We are committed to the centrality of the cross, the truth of the Word, the power of the Holy Spirit and the global scope of the Great Commission.  We care more about effectively proclaiming the love and forgiveness of Jesus Christ then we do about having the word “Christ” in our name.  Although the words Campus and Crusade served as hindrances, there was never any intentional decision to remove the word ‘Christ.’ Yet as we considered hundreds of name possibilities, our experience confirmed that Cru would provide greater opportunity to connect men and women with the heart of Jesus, and to help them consider the good news of the gospel.”

So, what does “Cru” mean?  The name doesn’t mean much of anything yet.  But, what we do as an organization will give meaning to the name.  For example,  Starbucks was an empty word when the company first started.  Over time, however, it became what it is now, so that you can’t hear the word without thinking of coffee.  Similarly, “Cru” will acquire meaning over time.  This meaning will come from our mission to reach lost people around the world with the Gospel of Jesus Christ.  Another staff member named Shawn McGrath has posted a very helpful reflection on this topic.

On a personal level, I think the change is good.  It does seem weird to have a name like Cru that doesn’t mean anything right now.  As mentioned above, however, it won’t stay that way for long.  Our leaders have handled this name change wonderfully at every phase.  They researched, considered names, involved the right people in the decision, and announced the change this week.  Christ has been central in all of this.  Prayer has been behind all of it.  I believe God has led our organization to a new name.

What has been hard about this, however, has been seeing the reaction of some Christians outside the organization.  Some comments I’ve seen have been downright condemning, judgmental, and distrusting.  We are not ashamed of Christ!!  On the contrary, we are just as committed to making Christ known throughout the world as we have been in our 60 years of existence.  Thousands, even millions, of lives have been impacted with the Gospel during that time because of Campus Crusade for Christ.  To those who don’t completely understand or agree with the name change, I ask you to please believe the best and give us the benefit of the doubt!

Yours for the Gospel,

Jeff

2011 US Staff Conference

I head to Fort Collins, Colorado today for our biennial US Staff Conference.  Five to six thousand full-time Campus Crusade staff will gather for training, teaching, vision, prayer, and refreshment for 10 days.  Pray that the Lord would meet us and direct us.  Personally, since I have gluten allergies, pray that I would be able to find good and healthy food in the campus cafeteria.  Also, pray that I would depend on the Spirit.

Thankful for you,

Jeff

Santa Monica Summer Project 2011

 

Top left to right – Andrew (UCSB), Matt (Cal Poly San Luis Obispo), me. Bottom left to right – Elijah (Cal State Fullerton), Eric (Chico State).

Every summer, cities throughout the world come face to face with the reality of the Gospel because of the thousands of college students who go to dialogue with the people of the city about Jesus.  Some people come to believe in Christ, while others are still a long way away in their spiritual journey from trusting Jesus.  Nonetheless, the impact is powerful.  This summer, for eight straight weeks, the people of Santa Monica have been pushed to consider where they stand on life’s biggest issues, all because of 65 college students from around the country investing their summers to preach the Gospel to those who don’t know Jesus.

My favorite aspect of this time, however, has been discipling the four guys in the above picture who have come to Santa Monica.  By pouring into them, they not only are equipped to reach out to people in Santa Monica this summer, but also to those around them wherever God leads them in the next 60 or so years of their life.  On top of living life with them, I get two hours per week separately with each individual.  Below is what one week of those times looked like:

Andrew (UCSB) – Like I do, Andrew struggles with finding his identity in what he does.  In his eyes, what he does makes him significant, and can become a big motive behind ministry.  We discuss an article that shows how preaching the Gospel to ourselves speaks to our deepest needs and changes our motives.  Additionally, we also talk about how to use the circumstances in our days as opportunities to grow.  Since Andrew is somewhat interested in a girl on project, we also talk about what it might look like to evaluate if he wants to pursue her.

Elijah (Fullerton) – Elijah has never really had a consistent time in the Word on his own.  The previous week, I had challenged him to spend 15 minutes in the Word each day.  He chose to read Philippians every day, and I check in with him to see how it’s going.  Thankfully, he’s been faithful to read every day!  I challenge him to keep that going.  We discuss an article about having a daily time with the Lord.  We then discuss the article about using our circumstances as growth opportunities.  Elijah also has a big need to gain experience in evangelism.  He’s seen me model it many times, but needs experience himself and feedback from me.  So, I give him the reigns and let him initiate spiritual conversations with 4 or 5 people at Santa Monica College (SMC).  He is growing.

Eric (Chico State) – Eric and I start out by initiating spiritual conversations with students at SMC.  I have modeled this for him many times, so just like with Elijah, I ask him to take the lead so I can give feedback later.  One person we talk to is Dan.  Eric asks questions and listens for a good 20-30 minutes.  His questions are gentle, yet pointed and thought-provoking.  Dan, though not a Christian, feels very heard and understood and communicates his thanks for such a good conversation.  Eric boldly asks if he can give his opinion and proceeds to share the Gospel.  We ask if he believes this, and he says very thoughtfully and sincerely, “Yeah, I think I do.”  We spend a little more time discussing the distinction between knowing God by faith in Christ as opposed to good works.  By the end of our conversation, Dan realizes that a relationship with God is something that he wants to investigate further.  We help him think about his next steps with God and get his contact information.  It was so rewarding to see Eric’s growth in evangelism over the past few weeks!

After ending our conversation with Dan, Eric and I then talk about using our daily circumstances for growth.  We also discuss what it would look like to be a missionary in the marketplace, where Eric is planning to be an accountant.

Matt (Cal Poly SLO) – Matt (who is a far happier person than he seems in the above photo) wants to be someone who loves and helps restore the broken wherever he is.  He wants to be heavily involved in a church body and use his gifts there.  We talk about the importance of discipleship in the church, knowing that building into a concentrated group of people and teaching them how to reach others as well will produce the most long-term impact in the kingdom.

As with the other guys, Matt and I talk about using daily circumstances for growth.  I let him take the lead in evangelism, but the campus is fairly empty by the time we start.  He initiates a few conversations, but people seem busy and we don’t have much luck.  We leave campus, but on the way talk about being comfortable and confident when we approach people.

I enjoyed my time with these men so much!  I think about how much more equipped each of them are to bring the reality of the Gospel to those who don’t know Jesus wherever they are when they leave Santa Monica and I’m not there to coach them.  I think of the lives that will be impacted through them in the coming years.  So exciting!

Thank you so much for your partnership in investing in these four men this summer, as well as allowing the people of Santa Monica to come face to face with the reality of Jesus.  You make such an impact!

Students Arrive Tomorrow!

After a week of preparation by the staff, students finally arrive tomorrow!  I’m excited to have them here.  My group will consist of Andrew from UC Santa Barbara, Elijah from Cal State Fullerton, Eric from Chico State, and Matt from Cal Poly SLO.  Pray that God would do a ton in their lives and use them greatly in the lives of others in Santa Monica.

As we have prepared for the arrival of the students, we have been able to do some evangelism and understand the people of Santa Monica better.  It seems like education and environmentalism are big idols for them.  The way to fix the world is by giving people more education.  Another person’s answer was to conserve, using less gas if you can.  I think education and taking care of the environment are good things.  When they are substitutes for Jesus and his work, however, it’s clear that they’ve become idols.  Pray for wisdom for us as we engage with people, and softened hearts from them.

Santa Monica Summer Project

3rd Street Promenade in Santa Monica

I just arrived in LA for Santa Monica Summer Project.  The 63 students on the project haven’t arrived yet; some are still in classes at their respective schools.  Staff, however, arrive a week early to prepare for their arrival.

I will be pouring into 4 specific guys this summer: Andrew, Elijah, Eric, and Matt.  I haven’t met them yet, but am excited to get to know them and invest in them.  Pray that they will grow closer to the Lord this summer and grow in their knowledge of how to introduce others to Jesus in a relevant way.  Pray for close relationships within our group.  Pray that they would grow in loving others well.

I will be updating this blog with posts throughout the next month.  Check back for updates.

“Can I Come With You to Church Tonight?”

Kaylyn

“Kaylyn, can I come with you to church tonight?”

Kaylyn (right) had invited Jillian to church numerous times, but she had always declined.  It was Jillian’s first time ever attending church, even though she had been exposed to the idea of God and His existence.  She had no idea what to expect, but as the pastor explained the message of the Gospel and having a relationship with Jesus, she knew it was what she needed.  The pastor invited people ready to make a decision to come forward, but instead Jillian turned to Kaylyn and they moved to the back of the room.  Kaylyn could hardly believe what was happening, but right then she had the opportunity to help Jillian ask Christ into her life!

Their relationship began about a year ago when they both came to UCI to audition for the dance department to be accepted to the program.  When they arrived, they were the first people to meet each other.  They talked for a little while and then, right before going in for the audition, Kaylyn turned to Jillian and asked if she could pray for them.  To Kaylyn it was just a simple prayer, but Jillian was very impacted and felt a strong sense of safety and connection with this new friend.  They left that day unsure if they would ever see each other again.

It was no coincidence that they both showed up to UCI in the fall and had been assigned to live not only in the same dorm, but in the same suite!  The two reconnected and developed a friendship.  Although Jillian was not ready to be open to God, Kaylyn continued to invite her to church each week.  Through the year, Jillian’s relationship with her roommate has become increasingly strained and the stress was causing her to question her purpose and meaning.  She had not forgotten that day when Kaylyn had prayed with her and knew that she went to church every Sunday.  Jillian was at her end and reached out for the first person she knew that had a strong relationship with God.

Since the night Jillian placed her faith in Christ, she has been going every week with Kaylyn to a Campus Crusade bible study led by one of our staff members, Ashleigh.  Ashleigh says it’s amazing to see Jillian’s excitement for growth and her eagerness to develop her relationship with God in community with others.   It’s so encouraging to see what God has done in Jillian’s life and the ways He has used Kaylyn’s steps of faith to bring her friend to Christ.  So exciting!

Thank you so much for your partnership in reaching students like Jillian for Christ!